
Life coach Adrianna Onubogu teaches women how to use “feminine communication” to make men wait until marriage to have s*x.
Adrianna, who markets herself as the “Soft Power Strategist,” shared a deeply personal story about her husband in a new Instagram post.
She said men can change their ways if women know how to communicate in their language.
“I will never forget my husband telling me he didn’t mind dating a woman with kids because he was a single dad himself. He just preferred the kids to be around the same age as his sons,” she wrote in a post on Instagram.
“I had one child around his son’s age and two that were toddlers … and he still proposed to me 10 months later because he didn’t want anybody else to have me. I didn’t stop talking to him because of what he “preferred.”
I let my energy and show him that what he THINKS he wants doesn’t matter because he had all those thoughts before he ever met me
How did I do it? By using feminine communication to speak his language. Every single time we were together and most importantly every time we weren’t.”
Adrianna explained she uses feminine communication to connect with her husband, rather than confronting him to correct his behavior.
“Every single time we were together, and most importantly, every time we weren’t, I used feminine communication to connect with him. immediately I want to show you how to do the same.”
Adrianna urged women to focus on connection before confrontation. She described her approach as part emotional intelligence and part behavioral strategy.
“So you want to wait until marriage to have sex, but you’re afraid if you tell a man that, he’ll walk away. Let me tell you how to get him to want to wait — you have to become his favorite experience,” she said.
“Men are willing to do whatever they want for the woman they want. But you have to speak his language,” she added.